Planning my honeymoon with my finacee . .. .. . and we are advid bikini and Speedo fans. We both love form fitting swimwear that flatters my buldge. I am of average physique, NOT over weight at all, in my mid-20's, AND NOT GAY. Also, are girls bashful when they excite guys in Speedos (is this their source of reluctance in America)?

You are an idiot.

just say no.

I think a hot man in a speedo that shows his buldge and his lady with an equally hot body are awesome. I see many of couples like this on my travels throughout the Carribean, Mexico and Hawaii. If a man is not gay and has a nice body, he shouldn't be concerned about what others say about him wearing a sexy speedo. Amen.

There is nothing hotter than a guy in a nice pair of board shorts. Speedos are for competitive swimmers or gay guys only!

I think that it is best for you to decide what to wear based on personal comforts and not what other people think you should wear. Also ask your girl, she is the one who has to be seen in public with you.